
Photo: edited from lostsplendor.tumblr.com (Illustration by J.C. Leyendecker)
Getting ready for a big date? Going to a really important business meeting? Or just really curious about how to properly do things? We live in such a fast-paced life that oftentimes the proper way of doing things gets lost in the frenzy – especially for some guys who might not be too keen on details.
Knowledge is power, and sometimes, even the tiniest tidbits can separate the men from the boys. This week, {Style Studio} lists down some pretty mundane things that are so easily overlooked by boys, but ultimately important (or just generally awesome) for men to know.
Knot-worthy
We can never emphasize it enough – but knowing how to tie your own necktie is almost as important as knowing how to brush your teeth. There are many different ways to tie a knot to match the tie’s material, its width, and your button-down’s collar (really, it’s an art) – but just to skim the surface it’s best to know how to tie a Half Windsor. It’s smaller than the full Windsor; it’s symmetrical and spiffy, and best for standard-sized collars and ties.
Step 1: Throw away your zip ties and clip-ons. We mean it.
Step 2: Drape the tie around your neck, under the collar. The wider side should be on your right, and should extend around 10-12 inches longer than the narrower end on the left.
Step 3: Lay the wider end over the narrower end.
Step 4: Wrap it behind the narrow end, pull it up and insert it into the hole between your collar and the tie.
Step 5: Pull the wide end down, then bring it over the narrow end again.
Step 6: Slip the wide end up through the hole between your collar and tie pull forward, away from you
Step 7: Insert the wide end into the knot in front, and with both hands, carefully pull it down, tightening the knot and adjusting it to shape.

Photo: Illustrations compiled from tie-a-tie.net/halfwindsor
The Button Situation
If you think you know how to wear a suit, think again – just because your blazer has three buttons doesn’t mean you have to button them all. Like we said, the devil is in the details, and these little nuances will turn any aspiring amateur into a dandy gent instantly.
The Single-button. Obviously, keep this buttoned, except when sitting down. Rule of thumb, keep it fastened when standing, but open when seated – this will keep the suit draping properly. Single-buttoned suits aren’t as classic as its poly-buttoned ones, though. Also, since it lets more of your shirt and tie through, make sure you pair them properly (which means you can’t wear your beloved Looney Tunes one anymore).
The Two-button Suit. The classic two-button suit is the standard when it comes to menswear. Of course, even though it’s flattering for most body types, make sure you pay attention to the fit. To wear a two-button suit, keep the top button fastened, leaving the button below to freely drape over the body.
The Three-button Suit. A bit more suited for taller gents out there, the three-button suit is a little bit trickier to wear. Nevertheless, it is still a classic, so feel free to wear one (that fits your body properly – a loose three-button suit will make you look frumpy, while one that’s too tight is just plain uncomfy). Fasten the middle button, but whatever you do never close the bottom one. This will distort the shape of the suit. Oh, and never do all three – it will make you look stiff.
To make sure your suit fits well, make sure you can close all the buttons without pulling or tugging the fabric. Even if you won’t fasten all buttons, this is a great way to see if the suit fits you well.

Photo: edited from askmen.com
Play Your Cards Right
All over the world, the business card is the standard way of presenting yourself (or the business you represent) to another person. Therefore, it is important to treat it with utmost respect and courtesy.

Photo: from ibebek.net
Giving Business Cards. As a rule, never hand out business cards like you’re dealing playing cards. Present it with your right hand (or both hands, which is a common custom in Japan) with your name and your company facing the other party. Never hand them out with your left hand, as some cultures see this as very disrespectful. Don’t forget to look them in the eye and smile!
Receiving Business Cards. Receive business cards the way they were given to you. If the other party hands it over to you with both hands and a bow, do the same. As with giving, receiving business cards with the left hand is a no-no – as is immediately putting it aside or in your back pocket upon receiving it. When you receive it, take the time to read the card, before putting it in your business card case (which means you should always have one with you!)

Photo: from hospitality-school.com
Bills, Bills, Bills
A gentleman is courteous and mindful of how he treats the people around him. Oftentimes (and this is a sad fact of life in general), the wait staff and service crew in restaurants are the first to suffer when we’re having a bad day – and that’s hardly any excuse to be rude.
Acknowledging your dedicated wait staff can be as simple as changing the way you ask for your bill. While it’s pretty common to ask for it by drawing a little rectangle in the air with your fingers, it’s more polite to discreetly call the waiter’s attention by raising your hand, and then asking him for it. Don’t forget to say please and thank you, and if the service was good, a little extra tip would be nice!
Pour for You, Glen Coco
After all the relatively formal tips we’ve given you to become a dapper and proper gentleman, it’s time to get serious and answer an all-important question: How does one properly pour a glass of beer?
While most guys would just hack that cap off and chug it from the bottle, there’s a proper way to pour a glass of beer that will not only prevent too much foam, but will actually enhance your tasting experience of your favourite drink.
Step 1: Choose beer in dark bottles. Exposing beer to sunlight can cause it to change its smell and flavour, and dark bottles can help prevent that.
Step 2: Choose a tall glass or mug for your beer. Using glassware will allow you to fully taste its flavour. Also, make sure it is clean, with no dirt, moisture or oils in it that can hamper your beer from forming a proper head (or that layer of foam on top, which releases the beer’s aroma).
Step 3: Tilt your glass around 45° towards you, and begin pouring the beer onto the glass, targeting the middle of the slope of your mug or glass.
Step 4: When you’ve poured halfway through, bring the glass back up and continue pouring, creating the foam head. An ideal head on your beer’s surface should be around 1 to 1 ½ inches thick.

Photo: from beercollege.net
Remember to chill beer in the freezer before serving it, instead of dropping some ice cubes into it. This will water down the beer and affect its overall taste. And of course, know your limits when you drink – a true gentleman never destroys his properly-knotted tie and two-button suit by unintentionally revealing to the public what you had for dinner before your drinks.
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